What do you when despair sneaks in like an unwanted guest?

How do you manage grief?

Fortunately I am not currently targeted by the Terminator. Counting that as a win right now..

See here’s what I think, actually. I think the secret is to make friends with your despair. Make friends with your fear even. Sometimes even the fear of despair. Tell your despair this little message, maybe. Here I will try it first:

Hello and hi and nice to see …